Why intelligent people hide your sympathies and dislikes
Should you sometimes hide the own sympathies and dislikes? We think already! Wait our reasoning before you disagree with us. Our arguments are not connected, that we keep the world for bad. But sometimes our feelings and intuitions deceive us. We should rely on them, but put them in a sense also in question. Sometimes the feelings when we first met playing a bad game with us. They are often made in prejudice. As a result of our life experience and education we make out images of good and bad people. Then we classify the new people we meet, in one of the two categories. Often wrongly.
Is the first impression actually crucial?
In private life you should communicate closer only with people you really like, and loves. In the professional life and larger groups of people, all the others deserve a chance. You want to be but not badly treated, just because you are someone unappealing, or?
Self-confident people don’t evoke sympathy?
Establish real friendships
Affection is an important factor in private life
If you are in search of work, one seeks is maximum, to make a good first impression
About the first impression…
That’s another thing with the first impression. Many people know that this matters most for them in assessing a person. If someone from the beginning to not like us, this was a premonition. This evidence is according to many experiences with the time as right. If we don’t like someone from the beginning, he feels that too. His bad behaviour, a punishment for our unfounded bad attitude can be simple.
It all starts with the greeting…
The manner on which you greeted the others, plays a role
In professional life, you will feel sympathy certain people. Should you hide them?
How you feel because, if you feel that someone pejorative evaluate you, although he doesn’t know you? Is this not unfair? Maybe somehow you would avenge but when as a people. This can happen even sometimes unconsciously. Perhaps it can be explained by this context why the first impression is often confirmed.
So, it would be important to estimate the own sympathies and dislikes…
With the reasoning above we wanted to convince you that the neutrality is sometimes very important. To large sympathies, as well as the spontaneous dislikes are not necessarily friendly. We would have to give other people the chance to show us their strengths. By you assess someone just for feelings, not rational reasons, see him this way. First, follow these selfish, you mean, what exactly you like, in fact, is the best. Secondly, you can derive from positive and negative prejudice. The positive lead us, to trust anyone too quickly based on good experience. That could put us in danger. The negative prejudices provide aversion based on past problems with similar people. So we’re missing good opportunities because of past bad experience.
Which give another chance, so he shows what he is… a man
…und to develop its properties
Every single detail is what a man you are
Dislike in another cause
To avoid all this, we should stick Yes as neutral to a first acquaintance. It is normal that sympathies or dislikes spontaneously. But the effort, we should give us to hide them.
How are “Neutral being”
How we hide our sympathies or negative feelings and be neutral? It’s hard, but it is. It is not easy to convince someone we don’t like, on the contrary. That we are a chance to give, and he feels this him, is already feasible. Here are a few tips for your behavior in these situations:
Internally reconcile themselves with the idea that not all people like you;
With more peace, accept the things in your environment that you like not 100%;
Apply the rules of good education;
Deal critically with the own prejudices and expectations;
Continue working on your own self awareness and development;
Take breathing pauses;
To express the own needs and goals.
Accustomed to a healthy distance to all people in your environment and comply with them.
When dealing with the other one should be critical also itself and the own prejudices against
Not everyone likes everyone
All people are different so each other!
Sympathies certain people arise anyway